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Marriage is based on trust and commitment. Both parties must be trustworthy and consistant. Evaluate how trustworthy you are with this quick quiz.
1. When I say I am going to do something, I do it.
2. If I will be late making a commitment or coming home, I call.
3. I keep my spouse's confidences and do not share them with other people.
4. I am careful not to discuss information about my spouse with other people.
5. My spouse can count on me to listen to concerns without judgment or ridicule.
6. When we socialize with other people, my spouse is clearly the most important person in the room.
7. When I am angry with my spouse, I am careful not to use information that he or she has confided in me to win the argument.
8. I refrain from name-calling or sarcasm when I am upset with my spouse.
Scoring: How many "always" did you have?
7-8, excellent. You are a trustworthy person, focused on building trust in your marriage.
5-7, good. Keep working. You will reap results by changing your behavior.
Less than 5. Get busy.
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