Are You a "Good Parent"?

Kids are one of the top three issues that couples fight about.  It is usually because there are different philosophies of parenting;  often one parent is more strict than the other.  Evaluate your philosphy of parenting with this quick quiz.  Do you fall into the trap of being the "good parent"?


1. I feel that my children are a reflection of me.

Never

Sometimes

Always


2. I give into my child's demands if he creates a fuss.

Never

Sometimes

Always


3. I feel guilty when I say "No" to my child.

Never

Sometimes

Always


4. I feel sorry for my child.

Never

Sometimes

Always


5. I demand obedience from my children and feel it is important to win.

Never

Sometimes

Always


6. I am very concerned about what others think about my child and my parenting skills.

Never

Sometimes

Always


7. I find it hard not to be overprotective of my child.

Never

Sometimes

Always


8. I try to give my child everything that I did not get as a child.

Never

Sometimes

Always


9. I feel that my kids "owe" me because of everything I do for them.

Never

Sometimes

Always


10. I like to give my children all the latest toys and games.

Never

Sometimes

Always


Scoring: How many nevers did you have?

8-10, excellent. You are letting your child take responsibility and creating a respective home environment.

5-8, good. Talk together about ways in which you can enhance learning opportunities for your child.

0-5, you are "working" too hard. You are taking responsibility for things that really your child needs to address. You may find a local parenting group very helpful for additional strategies and support.



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